im so sick of seeing reports regarding men posting in women-only communities and i cant help but get annoyed with these guys.

the rules are clearly presented. either youre not paying attention or youre just an asshole who purposefully throws their opinion in a place explicitly not wanting it.

what the fuck is wrong with you guys?

    • hddsx@lemmy.ca
      84·
      2 days ago

      I know you edited your post, which still has things I think are wrong, but OP is absolutely correct based on your initial post… JS

        • hddsx@lemmy.ca
          44·
          2 days ago

          A few points:

          1. It could be a mistake, but adding context without labeling it as an addition or an edit changes the view of the discourse that has already been made

          2. You once again flipped the discriminatory group and the group discriminatory against which is at best a misunderstanding and at worse malicious

          3. You are STILL wrong and are mansplaining. You don’t need to insert yourself into women’s discourse. You are literally the type of person women’s only spaces are built to protect against. While yes, help from those who are not discriminated against definitely help the discriminated, that help comes in listening to what they have to say and support. Your expressed viewpoint is more or less: “I am very important and you should hear what I have to say because it is helpful”. You are, intentionally or not, giving subtle hints that you are better than women and that’s why you should be allowed to force your way into their discourse. In this day and age, we call that sexism.

          Maybe that’s not your intention, but boy your writing is full of red flags

          • theunknownmuncher@lemmy.world
            7·
            2 days ago

            It could be a mistake, but adding context without labeling it as an addition or an edit changes the view of the discourse that has already been made

            It wasn’t a mistake, I simply moved the paragraph from a comment deep in the thread to the top level, because it deserves to be there. Also, there’s nothing wrong with editing comments and “the discourse that has already been made” is not owed preservation, not that it was impacted in any way by my edit.

            giving subtle hints that you are better than women

            Go ahead and point out these “subtle hints” that I’m better than women.

            In this day and age, we call that sexism.

            Yeah, that’s not what sexism means.

            Your comments are full of red flags of delusions, imaginary enemies, and self victimization.

                • hddsx@lemmy.ca
                  22·
                  2 days ago

                  Sure, let’s consult merriam webster again since you are dinging me on dictionary definitions: www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/prejudice

                  1 a : an irrational attitude of hostility directed against an individual, a group, a race, or their supposed characteristics b(1) : an adverse opinion or leaning formed without just grounds or before sufficient knowledge (2) : preconceived judgment or opinion c : an instance of such opinion or judgment 2 : injury or damage resulting from some judgment or action of another in disregard of one’s rights especially : detriment to one’s legal rights or claims

                  You are firmly under 1b2 and 1c.

                  • theunknownmuncher@lemmy.world
                    52·
                    2 days ago

                    Neither of those apply to anything I’ve said. They’re quite a stretch. You’re just wrong, and certainly not because of your gender, which I do not know.