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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • When more of my friends lived a walkable distance from me it was more the pub round the corner a few times a week. Now people have dispersed a bit, things need to be a bit more scheduled and so we’re less likely to fall into a default place

    Coffee shops sadly don’t tend to be open late so they’re not really gonna work as the default place to casually meet mates for anyone in a 9-5 job IMO.


  • Hopefully I can illuminate

    Team sport fandom traditionally trends with locality. You grow up with going to the local football stadium on the weekend as one of the options for how you spend your time. Your mates have the same choices, so even if you never pick it, you’re gonna hear about it at the very least

    If you spend your time with a team, you get to know the players (which is kinda parasocial in most instances, ngl) and in many cases watch them grow over the years into incredible athletes.

    Naturally, people end up proud of the people they support, doing well. It’s part of the human condition


  • IIRC most of the world relies on ground fault protection to protect against failure which is why we use ground pins, in Japan they detect short circuits which is roughly equivalent in safety.

    I’m not sure why or how, but I remember from when I looked it up when I was out there last year that was the explanation I found

    Edit: I’d love to be corrected by whoever downvoted






  • Someone drunk enough to tell a truth that they wouldn’t otherwise have done so, is probably going to have a hard time tracing back down any train of thought more than a couple of hops in my experience.

    And that’s if you can convince them to do that at all.

    If you’re looking to verify something you think you already know, maybe slightly better chances

    Of course, YMMV and it’s worth saying you really shouldn’t try to manufacture this scenario with the purpose of finding something out, that’s probably a line crossed for most people




  • Been in a relationship for quite a while so this is 2nd hand knowledge, but you wanna avoid any app that’s been around for more than 2-3 years.

    At the beginning the apps need to get a reputation for successfully hooking people up and they’re usually not urgently searching for money thanks to venture capitalism. After that point though they need to grow and profit.

    You know what’s bad for user growth in a dating app? Successfully matching people into a long term relationship; those users may never return.

    The end result is what I hear tinder is these days: a siphon into the bank accounts of single people that will do everything it can to avoid making them not single.