I’m not hot. I’m not ugly, but also not hot and had plenty of dates from dating apps when I was on them.

Good job, not a slob, decent bio, and quality photos of myself.

I was also really selective in who I swiped on. I didn’t swipe right on every hot chick. I swiped right on girls I found attractive and best guess from profile lifestyles were similar.

I went out with plenty of attractive women, hooked up with a handful and dated a few. I also went out on plenty of bad dates, the girl who carried a dead lizard she found on the ground. The autistic racist. The girl with gnarly teeth.

Then I randomly met my wife through a coworker.