Exactly this. I have missed semi important message this way. Signal seems to be particularly susceptible, not that I would blame them or call it a bug just a very weird niche case.

Don’t think I haven’t worked through this in my head lol

Imo if you fuck a dude in any way, you lose straight as a title forever and you become at minimum heteroflexible.

Source: Gold Star cishet who wishes to be even slightly gayer cus damn it looks fun

FetLife is literally the biggest fucking cesspool of humanity on the internet. Its basically just a gateway for predators to find victims.

Source: Was active on it for years, tried to speak out against abusers in the scene, was told “we don’t throw people away”

He said the card company sided with DD. I guess at that point you can try and go to Visa/MC/Whomever directly but I honestly don’t know if they will even work with you or just insist it’s someone further down streams problem